please help me. my best friends ex admitted he likes me, i feel the same. im planning to tell her everything tomorrow. it's been a year since they broke up but she isn't over it. he makes me happy and i know me and him would be good together, but do you think i should leave it and just forget being with him, or talk to her about it and ask how she feels? she would come first. am i a bad person?
No of course your not a bad person, no one can help how they feel towards others. So dont blame yourself for anything. I think the first thing you should do is talk to your friend and ask her how she feels, but dont let her opinion control your choice as to whither you start seeing this guy. As it is completely your choice, but your choice can pan out in multiply ways, one being your friend could be completely supportive and you can start getting to now this guy even more, or you may lose your friend and get the guy but it may not work. Or if you dont want to lose your friend you may have to put a lid on your feelings and tell her the truth or not and not do anything about your feelings. You should do what your heart tells you and maybe you think what would she do if your roles were oppisite and how much of a friend is she and whither you want the friend or the guy. If you need more help feel free to message me again on or off anon x
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